How to handle a husband
It’s very rare that a girl will get the desired husband as like she sees in dreams. You are here because you are definitely one of them.
But I want to tell you one thing that after marriage you both need to accept and adjust with each other to live a happy life.
Every person has its own thinking and feelings. You need to understand your husband’s feelings, his likes/dislikes, and almost everything.
Read this article carefully “How to handle husband-best tips for wife”. It will help you to handle your husband.
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Please note one thing that you may don’t get a perfect husband but you can make him perfect for yourself.
Here some tips are given which may help you to handle your husband.
1. Have some patience
Fights in husband and wife are very common. Every married life takes some time to run smoothly. So the wife should keep some patience if your married life is not running smoothly.
Because the basic need to live marriage life happily is the understanding between the wife and the husband. And this understanding will only come with time. When your husband is angry then wait till he calms down. Don’t act like fuel in a fire because this only gives rise to his anger which may result in a big fight between you and your husband.
2. Ask yourself Why is your husband behaving like this?
Whatever the situation in between wife and husband always put the question to yourself that…
why is your husband behaving like this?
Why is he acting like this?
Why is your husband angry?
These questions to yourself will give you the solution to your every problem. If you still don’t get the things that what is happening. Then ask freely to your husband. But only use soft and pleasing words to ask him.
3. Is your husband Mama’s boy
You may get irritated initially with your husband because he may be giving more time and only listen to his mother than you. Maybe your husband is a Mama’s boy. But this doesn’t mean that you would give him a tag of “Mama’s boy”.
She is not only his mother, but she is also your mother now. Instead of giving him a tag of “mama’s boy”, make him realize that he should keep a balance between you and his mother.
4. Communicate with husband
Communication is the solution to every misunderstanding or fight. If there is any misunderstanding between you and your husband then talk directly to your husband. In this way, you can handle your husband.
5. Talk softly with husband
If your husband talks rudely with you and if you want to change that kind of behavior, then the only solution is to talk softly with him. Tell him you love him. Give him a hug. Love can solve any problem. You can easily handle your husband with love.
6. Win husband with food
If you are from India then you may have listened sometimes from your mother that the heart of the husband passes through his stomach. Yes, it’s true if you want to win your husband’s heart then cook his favorite dishes. Make him realize, how much you care about him. Your husband will definitely change his behavior towards you and you can easily handle your husband.
7. Handle husband In Anger
Ignore the husband when he is in anger. Don’t use harsh words to control him when he is already in anger. Let your husband calm down. Give him some time and then talk to him.
If you use harsh words to handle your husband then this will only give rise to more fire. In anger, maybe your husband will say you something that may pinch you more or maybe you will say something that could hurt him.
Understand this thing that anger is temporary. It will go away after some time but what about the words which you have told your husband in a fit of anger. It will leave scars inside both of you forever. So, always handle your husband calmly when he is in anger.
Show your husband that you care for him. With love, you can win his heart. With love, you can handle husband’s anger. You can do anything with love because it is a very powerful weapon for a wife. Your love can make him a perfect husband for you.
8. Don’t tolerate a husband
Don’t tolerate the husband if he disrespects you or harms you because at that time every wife needs to stand for herself. Some husband thinks that he can do anything with his wife.
He can beat her, he can abuse her, and he can make her his slave. But, this is not right. Your husband is not a real man if he does this kind of thing. A real man never raises his hand on his wife to slap. He never abuses his queen.
If all these things are happening to you then you don’t need to tolerate him more. If you know that there is no mistake of yours at all then at that time you need to take a stand for yourself.
9. Say sorry to the husband
Whenever you feel the mistake is yours, say sorry to your husband. Say sorry to end your fight. No one becomes smaller or bigger after speaking sorry. Say sorry in a sincere and pleasing way. It will definitely melt your husband’s heart, no matter how much he is angry with you. He will throw all his anger away.
10. Clear all misunderstandings with husband
Don’t keep any misunderstandings in between you and your husband. Try to clear it. Talk with hubby by using sweet and soft words. Listen to him and try to understand that what does your husband wants to say.
Then keep your points after that. Maybe your husband is right and you are wrong or maybe you are right and he is wrong.
Clearing all the misunderstandings will make your bond stronger and stronger with your husband.
If you don’t clear your misunderstandings on time then there will always reside some kind of bitterness in between you and your husband that may harm your married life in the future.
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